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看得懂的看啊，看不懂的给大家讲讲大概，就是正方发邮件给男主的朋友，同事，注意是群发，揭发小三的罪行，说对他们的两个孩子造成了巨大伤害。然后男主跳出来让女主不要把私人问题发布给大家，并声称会站在小三一边。 最上面一段是小三的回击。。说孩子的伤害其实是女主的责任，作为母亲首先是要保护好孩子，而不是拿这件事情来让孩子受到伤害。 同时小三进一步反驳女主的观点“为什么喜欢睡在别的女人的男人的臂膀里”。小三的观点是“比睡在别的女人的男人的臂膀里更痛苦的就是睡在一个已经不爱自己，并瞄准任何机会逃离自己的男人的臂膀里”
Form: Tao, Diane
Sent: February 25, 2010 10:25
To: Zhang, Lily
Cc: Yang, Yale; yiyang_tao@ml.com; Sun, Yonghong; Winn, Sean; Stevens, Joe;
Dawson, Andrew; Morrison, Alastair; Huh, Charles; Chu, Mabel; Yee, Andrew;
cici779200@yahoo.com.cn; liyi@j$*#e.com; delh@)(*e.com;
josieshen@#$()@l.net; xy@)$(*p.com; dcwyml@$#()*.com; charles@$#()*l.com;
euniqueyoung@$#(*.com.hk; Shiu, Ruby; taeyubkim@sc.com; Lai, Daniel Xiao
Ming; Li, Sherry Shao Ling; Yang, Sean; Zhang, Ting; Cheung, Clara Siu Yum;
Wang, Cindy Xi; Zhu, Wei; xujane@gmail.com; Prince, Jamaliah
Subject: Re: Dear friends ... Moving on ...
Dear Lily,
I understand that you are going through a difficult time in your personal
life, and I sincerely hope that you will find a way to deal with it that is
the best for you and your children.
I do understand how you feel. I also understand, however, that a marriage
can only break apart from the inside. I do not appreciate your attempt to
smear my reputation and paint me as the home wrecker. You know as well as
Yale does that your marriage fell apart long before Yale and I even met.
Whether or not I am in Yale's life has nothing to do with the eventual
outcome of your marriage. I am sure you understand this as well, but you
nonetheless sought to burn me on the cross as the scapegoat for your failed
marriage, which I do not believe is a mature thing to do.
Your description of the emotional damage your children have suffered is
disturbing indeed. I cannot help but wondering what you have been telling
them. I would think that a mother's first and foremost priority is to
protect her children from any emotional damage, rather than using them as
bargaining chips with a spouse or as props to win public sympathy. Yale is
the children's father and will always be. I am sure he will always love
them and be the best father he can be to them. Wouldn't it make more sense,
for the sake of the children's wellbeing, to emphasize to them that both
their parents will always love them even though one parent will not be
living with them all the time? I do not see what benefit there could
possibly be to teach the children to hate their own father.
You asked me how it was like to sleep in Yale's arms. I also wanted to ask
you, Lily, why would you want to hang on to someone who clearly does not
want to be with you at all? Lily, you are intelligent, highly-educated and
you have a high-paying and well-respected job. So why did you spend so much
time and energy trying to force someone who does not care about you to stay
with you? As a fellow woman I want to ask you this, don't you think you
deserve better? If there's anything that is worse than sleeping in the arms
of another woman's husband, it is sleeping in the arms of someone who
resents you, cannot stand you and wants to run away from you whenever he
gets a chance. So Lily, why would you want to put yourself in that
situation? Once again, don't you think you deserve better?
I sincerely hope that the pain you are currently feeling will subside soon
and you can turn a new leaf in your life. Please remember, you can lose a
job, you can lose a spouse, but you should never lose yourself. And please,
do not vent your negative feelings on your children. They are innocent.
Please always keep in mind their best interests rather than your own. You
deserve true happiness, and I hope that you will find it soon.
Best regards,
Diane
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From: Yale Yang [mailto:yale.yang@gbridge.biz]
Sent: February 23, 2010 11:14
To: Zhang, Lily
Cc: Tao, Diane; yiyang_tao@ml.com; Sun, Yonghong; Winn, Sean; Stevens, Joe;
Dawson, Andrew; Morrison, Alastair; Huh, Charles; Chu, Mabel; Yee, Andrew;
cici779200@*******.com.cn; liyi@junhe.com; delh@junhe.com;
josieshen@sbcglobal.net; xy@vicap.com; dcwyml@hotmail.com;
charles@chicapital.com; euniqueyoung@*******.com.hk; Shiu, Ruby;
taeyubkim@sc.com; Lai, Daniel Xiao Ming; Li, Sherry Shao Ling; Yang, Sean;
Zhang, Ting; Cheung, Clara Siu Yum
Subject: Re: Dear friends ... Moving on ...
Lily,
Please do not bring the personal issues to the public. The truth of the
facts is that our marriage had falling apart 8 years ago, divorce had been
in discussion 5 years ago. Our issues are known to all the people in the
word! Diane had done nothing wrong for her part! I am firmly standing by and
behind Diane. I will certainly hope she will marry me one day soon!
Trying to tell the people how evil I am and Diane is in this way is not
going to succeed! All the people, who knows you, me and our marriage,
supported my divorce, including my good friend Zhu Wei. I am sorry I have
dragged everyone into this. Lily please move on!
Sincerely yours
Yale
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From: Zhang, Lily [mailto:lily.zhang@credit-suisse.com]
Sent: February 23, 2010 10:23
To: Tao, Diane; yiyang_tao@ml.com; Sun, Yonghong; Winn, Sean; Stevens, Joe;
Dawson, Andrew; Morrison, Alastair; Huh, Charles; Chu, Mabel; Yee, Andrew;
cici779200@*******.com.cn; liyi@junhe.com; delh@junhe.com;
josieshen@sbcglobal.net; xy@vicap.com; dcwyml@hotmail.com;
charles@chicapital.com; euniqueyoung@*******.com.hk; Shiu, Ruby;
taeyubkim@sc.com; Lai, Daniel Xiao Ming; Li, Sherry Shao Ling; Yang, Sean;
Zhang, Ting; Cheung, Clara Siu Yum; Wang, Cindy Xi; Zhu, Wei;
xujane@gmail.com; Prince, Jamaliah
Cc: Yale Yang
Subject: Dear friends ... Moving on ..
Dear friends,
After 13 years and 2 beautiful children together, Yale and I have parted our
ways. Yale moved out last week.
Dear Diane/Tao Dan Yang,
Over the past couple of years, you knew everything about my family. You knew
when my kids had their soccer tournaments, you knew when they had their
swimming practices. You even knew their baby nicknames. On December 18th,
2009, on a noon flight, I took my children to the U.S. for Christmas
vacation. On the very same day, December 18th, 2009, on an afternoon flight,
you and Yale took off for the beaches of Phuket and shopping streets of
Bangkok for Christmas vacation. Diane, as a fellow woman, I often wondered
if the level of ecstasy this vacation had brought you equates to the level
of devastation this vacation had brought to my children and me. Diane, I
often asked myself what was it like for you to sleep in the arms of another
woman's husband, other children's father? I wondered if you ever thought
about us, the children and the wife, that we are made of flesh and blood,
that we have feelings, that we could get hurt, very hurt, devastatingly
hurt. I pondered if you knew you were destroying a family, if you knew your
joy would bring endless tears to us.
We went to Beijing last week for Chinese New Year. Your clothes were in our
Beijing home. My son screamed:" Mommy, don't touch those, they are
disgusting! Set them on fire, burn them to hell. They are the devil's
cloth!" My children are hurt. My daughter, 9 years old, now says "Mommy, I
don't ever want to get married." My son, 8 years old, says "Diane is our
Voldemort!" The psychological damage this affair has done to my children is
catastrophic. They are forever emotionally damaged. With this, I announce
you the winner.
How do I feel, Diane? This affair is like 10 thousand knives stabbing and
chopping my heart all at once. This affair has left me in so much pain that
I don't know how to heal myself. This affair has taught me tear supply can
actually be infinite. This affair has crushed me, leaving me a corpse
walking around with no heart. I don't know how to deal with this kind of
pain. I don't know how to move on. But I have children. I must move on.
Diane, I pray to God that you will never have to
experience this kind of betrayal and hurt. I wish you and Yale a happy life
together because, after all, we are all women and we all deserve to be
happy.
With sincere regards,
Lily |
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